9. Do you want to have children?
You’ve got to be careful with a loaded question like this. Your date might think this is a roundabout way of asking if they want to have sex.
Have you always dreamed of being a parent? If so, then you need to know if the person at the other end of the restaurant booth wants to have kids.
Some people have no interest whatsoever in becoming a parent. Ask this question before the two of you start to get hot and heavy, and breaking up becomes less of an option.
8. What would a perfect day be like?
Again, this is another one of those questions that go to the heart of who they are as a person. do they talk about winning the lottery and buying a new car?
Maybe for them, the perfect day would be to spend it with the people they love. Don’t shy away from telling them what your perfect day would be like.
7. What is the last thing you do before going to bed?
Are you going to get a straight answer with this question? Maybe not. Some people take a shower, masturbate, or try to move their bowels before going to bed.
Will your date tell you that they like to rub one out before turning off the lights? If they do, then your date is far more interesting than you thought.
The hope here is that they don’t venture too far out into left field unless that’s where you want to go. If you’re the type who likes to make love before going to bed, then, well, now is the time to talk about it.
6. Has anyone ever broken your heart?
Pain from past relationships can leave a sting that lasts a very long time.
Did they recently get out of a relationship that had a painful breakup? You don’t want to be someone rebound relationship because they rarely turn out very well.
If someone has been through a bad breakup or divorce, then it might be best to create a little space between you and them. People who are hurt can be a little tricky to deal with when dating.
5. What’s one food that you liked as a child but can’t stand today?
Everyone has one of those foods that they loved as a kid, but can’t eat today. You could reverse the question and ask what food they like to eat today that they hated as a child.
Sometimes fun questions like these can turn a dinner date around that isn’t going anywhere. If the two of you are nervous, then you need something to cut the tension.
Kids and food can be quite funny, and the conversation can take off like a rocket before you know it.